How to Buy a Vibrator:
The Complete Beginner's Guide
Shopping for your first vibrator — or upgrading your collection — does not have to be overwhelming. This guide covers everything you need to shop confidently, prioritize your health, and find the right fit for your body. Every product we carry at MedAmour is body-safe, phthalate-free, and selected with your sexual health in mind.
What Kind of Stimulation Do You Want?
This is the most important starting question. Do you prefer sensation outside the body, inside, or both? Your answer determines the right style, shape, and features for you.
External
Clitoral and vulva stimulation. The most popular starting point for beginners — intuitive, effective, and no internal use required.
Best for beginnersInternal
G-spot and vaginal stimulation. Curved designs that press against the front wall of the vagina for targeted sensation.
G-spot focusedBoth — Dual
Rabbit and duo-style vibrators that deliver blended internal and external orgasms, usually with two independent motors.
Blended sensationCouples
Worn during sex to stimulate both partners simultaneously, hands-free. C-shapes and vibrating rings are the most common styles.
Partner playChoose Your Vibrator Style
Once you know what stimulation you want, the right style follows. Here is a breakdown of every major type, what it does, and who it is for.
Bullet Vibrator
Small, precise, and usually the most affordable. About 3 inches long, designed for clitoral stimulation. Great for beginners and for pairing with other toys. Try the We-Vibe Tango X.
Best for BeginnersLay-On Vibrator
Curved to rest against the body. Covers a broader surface area than a bullet and can be used hands-free while lying down. A lower-intensity option good for longer sessions.
Broad StimulationWand Massager
The most powerful style available. Wide head, deep rumbly vibrations felt beneath the surface of the skin. A go-to for those who have difficulty reaching orgasm. See the Magic Wand Rechargeable and Magic Wand Micro.
Most PowerfulG-Spot Vibrator
Curved tip designed to press against the front wall of the vagina. Often used alongside external stimulation for a blended experience. Try the We-Vibe Nova 2.
InternalRabbit / Dual Vibrator
Two independent motors — one internal, one external — each controlled separately. The standard style for blended orgasms. The B Swish Bwild Infinite Bunny is a popular option.
Blended OrgasmsWearable Vibrator
Worn discreetly in the labia folds or on the hand. Often app-controlled. Works well for solo or partner play. The Aer by Dame is a popular wearable-style toy.
Hands-FreeC-Shape Couples Vibrator
Worn internally during intercourse. One end reaches the G-spot while the external end rests against the clitoris. Both partners benefit. The We-Vibe Chorus Pro is a top seller in this category.
For CouplesVibrating Erection Ring
Worn at the base of the penis. A vibrating arm extends forward to stimulate a partner externally during sex. See the We-Vibe Pivot.
For CouplesPrioritize Body-Safe Materials
Material matters — these products are used against sensitive tissue. Every vibrator at MedAmour is phthalate-free. Here is what each material means for your health and care routine.
100% Silicone
Non-porous, hypoallergenic, retains body warmth for a natural feel. The gold standard for vibrator materials. Use with water-based lubricant only — silicone-based lubes can degrade the surface over time.
ABS Hard Plastic
Non-porous, rigid, and excellent at transmitting vibration through the body. Compatible with any lubricant type. Well-tolerated by people with sensitivities. Commonly used in bullet vibrators.
Borosilicate Glass
Non-porous, compatible with all lubricant types, and can be warmed or cooled for temperature play. Easy to sterilize. Used primarily in non-vibrating toys and glass dildos.
Rubber, Jelly, or Unlabeled Soft Plastic
Often porous and may contain phthalates — chemicals that can be absorbed through skin and have been linked to health concerns in research. Avoid unless the specific material is clearly disclosed as body-safe. MedAmour does not carry products made with these materials.
Pick a Power Source
Your power source affects performance, convenience, and day-to-day use. Here is how the three main options compare.
Battery-Operated
Works anywhere, but performance drops noticeably with low batteries. Keep fresh, high-quality batteries on hand. A common choice for entry-level bullets.
Rechargeable
The most popular option. Plug in when not in use for consistent, reliable power. Typically stronger and quieter motors than battery-operated alternatives. Most MedAmour vibrators are rechargeable via USB or magnetic charger.
Electric — Corded
The most powerful option. No charging or batteries required. Best suited for wand massagers used at home. The Magic Wand Plus runs on a cord for uninterrupted maximum power.
Set a Realistic Budget
You do not need to spend a lot to find something that works well — but very cheap options often compromise on motor quality and material safety. Here is a clear breakdown of what each price range offers.
Do Not Skip the Lubricant
Lubricant reduces friction, increases sensation, and makes play more comfortable — especially important for anyone experiencing hormonal changes from menopause, pregnancy, or medications. Condoms and vibrators can also absorb natural moisture, so lube helps maintain comfort throughout.
Water-Based
Works safely with all vibrator materials including silicone. Easy to clean. The safest all-around choice for most people and most toys. Our most recommended starting point.
Safe with all toysSilicone-Based
Long-lasting and ideal for extended sessions or use in water. Not compatible with silicone toys — it will degrade the surface material over time. Use only with ABS plastic or glass toys.
Avoid with silicone toysPlant-Based or Organic
A good option for people with sensitivities to synthetic ingredients. Check compatibility with your specific toy material before use.
Sensitivity-friendlyCleaning and Care
Keeping your vibrator clean protects your health and extends the life of the toy. Clean before and after every use without exception.
Rinse with warm water and a small amount of mild, unscented soap — or use a dedicated sex toy cleaner for best results.
Non-porous materials — silicone, glass, ABS plastic — are the most hygienic and easiest to clean thoroughly. Another key reason they are the preferred choice.
Only submerge motorized toys if they are explicitly rated waterproof or submersible. Check your product instructions before doing this.
Pat dry with a lint-free cloth and allow to air-dry fully before storing. Never put a damp toy away.
Store in a clean, dry anti-bacterial fabric pouch to keep out dust and bacteria between uses. Keep toys separated to prevent materials from reacting with each other.
Myths, Misconceptions, and FAQs
Common questions answered plainly — including a few things that are widely believed but are simply not true.
Can I become addicted to vibration?
Will a vibrator replace a partner?
What if I try it and do not like it?
Will a powerful vibrator ruin sex for me?
What is the best vibrator for beginners?
How do I know if a vibrator is body-safe?
Is it safe to use a vibrator every day?
Can vibrators help with health conditions?
Can I use a vibrator during pregnancy?
Ready to Find Your Match?
Every vibrator in the MedAmour collection is body-safe, phthalate-free, and selected with your sexual health in mind. Browse by style, health condition, or budget.